>So this morning I showed up for my appointment (late) only to realise I didn’t have my referral. Which means I had to rebook. I had fasted 6 hours for nothing!
So I got back in the car and started to give myself a stern talking to about my lack of organisation – in my head of course. (Don’t pretend you don’t talk to yourself either, as parents it’s sometimes the only sane conversation we get!)
And then I thought, You know what? Fuck it. I messed up. I’m not going to beat myself up about it. Society does that enough for me.
We’re always told we’re not smart enough. Pretty enough. Thin enough. Tall enough. Young enough. Old enough.
So I thought I’d “stick it to the man” and tell you what I’m good at. And bloody proud of it, too.
I am a great artist. Not fantastic, but great enough that people are walking around with my designs on their skin.
I am a great cook. Even my almost two year old eats pretty much everything put in front of him. (the 16 year old sister is another story – but apparently there’s no pleasing teenagers, so why bother?)
I have a great relationship with “hubby” – meaning I can tell him when I’m pissed off at him or when I want him to stop playing the goddamn ps3 for 5 minutes because Dex has done an explosive poo. I don’t just stew in it and let it build up. (the frustration about the ps3 – not the poo. Who would stew in poo?)
I am a great mother. My kids are happy. Well looked after. Well fed. Dex is an amazing talker and very smart for his age – daycare told me so. Lola is (mostly) a happy baby. She gets her nappy free time and her tummy time and all the other times.
I look great for having had two babies. Yes, I have stretch marks. But you know what? Who gives a fuck. Please, find me a woman, childless or not that doesn’t have at least one. She deserves to be in a museum.
And finally, I have a GREAT life ahead of me. I have gorgeous, intelligent kids. A wonderful partner. A beautiful family and support network.
I deserve it. I deserve to be proud of what I have. What I’ve worked for and what’s yet to come.
Fuck modesty. You should be proud too.